GIVE AWAY: Family, Festivals, and Food!
Things were a little busy last week – we spent a lot of time with new friends, helped build a really cool barn style chicken coop (ours is going up next!), had a lovely day in the country (Ethan skinny dipped for the first time!), had my first Arkansas tick experience (ew!), then went immediately into prep for Chris’ big spanish style birthday shindig. We made 20 pounds of pulled pork, slow cooked for 2 days in a crock pot with lots and lots of garlic, limes and adobo. We had about 4 gallons of slow cooked black beans and rice, along with a big beautiful salad, fresh bread, lots of plaintains and even mofongo! The event was a great excuse to spend time with family and food!
Here’s some pictures of the event and other happenings this week (along with some fun pics of my dreads, now 3 months old
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So speaking of family, festivals, and food: This is the title of one of my very favorite books. I picked it up when Ethan was about 2 years old and began to gravitate right away to what I learned about Waldorf celebrations. Lately I’ve been reading more and more books and listening to training workshops, all in preparation for something I have yet to tell you guys about but when I do I’ll be so happy to share with you all!
So, today was a rough day. I am fighting a cold, Chris and I are both very tired, Ethan and Verity are both incredibly high needs and the noise level is constant! Not to mention that I have lots and lots of work to make up and I highly doubt I will finish it all. With sore throat and ears ringing, I felt impatient and unnerved today – two things I really don’t like about myself, I must admit. I remember seeing this video recently of a Waldorf home-based educator who said that when she notices the energy of the children getting really rowdy, she first checks her own breathing. That came to mind today, as I strove to check myself as a potential contributor to the wild pent-up rainy day boredom energy of the kids.
So instead of raising my voice for the umpteenth time (working on it!), I told Ethan to be still and silent as much as he could while Chris took Verity off on a drive to fall asleep. While this was happening I made a pot of “Quiet Child” tea from Mountain Rose Herbs and the “Best Oatmeal Cookies” from that well-loved go-to book: Family, Festivals, and Food!
What you can’t experience over this screen is just how tasty and warm these simple little things are. Things are feeling cozier and quieter already…

Well, if you’d like to try them, leave a comment about something you use to help ground yourself or the kids on an everything-is-going-wrong kinda day. Next week, I’ll pick a winner randomly and mail you my extra copy of this book! In it you will find seasonal activities, recipes, verses and songs, and stories for your family to celebrate the year.





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Lately….. I know it sounds super cliche, but I’ve been saying a little prayer, ‘God, help me not yell at my kids’. It works if I truly am asking from the heart. I feel my blood pressure drop and I remind myself not to take life so seriously
If I can engage the kids on a new activity or start them working on a project together, with my involvement, it usually doesn’t take long for them to become occupied, then I can escape and take a few minutes for myself, to calm down, before the next eruption.
Repeat proverbs that have been ground into my mind from a kids CD! I find myself saying things in a way to my kids that totally exasperates them…so workin on that but its easy to be snarky or terse with a sassy preschooler.
i go outside. a breath of fresh air really does wonders and it’s amazing what a little walk-about can do to quiet the mind, even for just a few minutes.
molly´s last blog ..oh my
Most days are rather chaotic around here. I have my own two kids and care for five others. They usually all nap for at least an hour in the afternoon so I am able to catch my breath, eat a popsicle, and watch some crummy TV….like Judge Judy or Judge Joe Brown.
I do enjoy running since it’s about the only time I get to myself. You should read “Run Like a Mother” if you haven’t already. I also enjoy reading blogs…epecially of other moms…it helps me feel normal and less stressed.
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